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So much to say! I'll do bullet points here at first. 1. The state didn't ask bio dad if they could share information with us; apparently the only children that he has that are adopted are ours. So, they could not do it anonymously. We decided that at this time we'll let sleeping dogs lie. He has not reached out to us in any way since his rights were terminated in 2012. We are easy to find, even if he was unsure of our names he could ask bio mom's family since he is still connected with them. Kids haven't been asking about him as much so I guess we will just hang on here. 2. Jolene (aka big kid's bio mom - not her real name obviously) met up with us in December for her bi-annual visit with the kids. I thought it went really well. She won't tell me what she is doing, if she's going to school or etc. so that's a little weird. She said she thought she'll be judged on that information, which...yeah, I mean, kinda? During the visit she said some...
Next week is supposed to be nice too-we'll be mowing before we know it. Sorry C is being a butt-I hope there is some explanation other than just being 2--this isn't normal. Maybe he is old enough to be angry at the circumstances? I wouldn't hold that against him, but you also can't reason with a 3 year old. I'm just sorry you are having to go through this. Hopefully, it will get better real soon.
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