So we went to the dentist, and the dentist said we need to get rid of the pacifier for Miss M. She uses it only at night, but apparently it is starting to affect her pallet. Honestly, it could/should have maybe been gone a long time ago. EXCEPT: One year ago, she was living full time with her foster mom. Nine months ago, she started having overnight visits with her bio mom, who she had only seen for 12 hours a week up until that time. She went from one night a week, to two nights, to three nights. Then 6 months ago, she went to zero nights with bio mom. Then 4 months ago, she started transitioning to our house. 2 months ago she started living here full time. Now, that's a lot of changes. And I feel for the girl, I do. I wish the system wouldn't have given the overnights with bio mom. I mean I'm sure they had to; she was doing so well for a while. But...!!!!! It's frustrating to build up that bond, and build and build...then to just tear it down. It put...